||You then probably start to drowse a bit, just because of the simple pleasure of the massage
itself. Isn't it a wonderful and pleasant feeling?
Allow yourself to imagine a scene of having a soothing massage on your whole
body. The gentle, flowing strokes of your therapist's hands
calm and relieve the tension of your muscles.
Whether it is actually an aura, with its quasi-religious overtones or 'only' electricity' is, hotly debated.
Some recent scientific research however confirms a generalised electromagnetic current around
our body and that all tissue and each individual organ, such as the Heart and the
Brain also generates an individual impulse.
Once they're 'clogged' we become sluggish, under-performing.
Is there a link between this comparatively recent research and the
Tantric belief in the Chakra system - spinning wheels
of energy, spiralling throughout our body, where the various aspects and levels of our 'being' are merged?
When these energy centres function properly, Tantrics
believe, so do we. Many believe that one manifestation of the 'Life Energy' is the Aura.
As with the Meridians, however, factors such as lifestyle, conditioning, guilt, diet, prevent them from fully functioning.
Although Tantric massage does not involve actual penetrative sex, it does involve full on touching of the organs.
For this reason you will not find it offered down your local
health centre. You are far more likely to find it on offer in the many massage parlours in London and other major cities.
Tantric massage awakens the hidden mystic energy and brings your body and spirit in complete harmony
with the universe. You must always keep in mind that this kind of massage is not meant to relieve the stresses and strains that our bodies have been subjected to,
to work the muscles, or to focus on our physical
Massage each outer lip slowly between thumb and forefinger, sliding
up and down the entire length of the lip. Pour a small amount of oil on to the mound of the Yoni, just enough so it drips
down the outer lips. Try to look into their eyes during the
massage and ensure she can see what you are doing. Do the same for the inner lips of the Yoni.
Take your time and watch your lover relax. Only ask your lover if the
pressure is too much or not enough.
I would suggest that this form of massage should not be
taken lightly. A great deal of skill is required as well as an in-depth knowledge of your inner energy before even contemplating conducting
a Tantric massage.
Lifelong problem, pattern or situation can resolve or disappear after
such experience. Happier, more fulfilling ways of living are
opening before amazed gaze of more whole, joyful and loving individual.
Numerous are reports of people being totally renewed,
restored and revitalised, enjoying multiple gifts of Spirit in a radically new,
better reality. And these glorious states bring about healing at all
Tantric massage makes use of light, sensual and slow strokes that can channel energy and increase the body's sensitivity
to a different reality. You may wish to apply some medium pressure along the sides of
the spine in order to make your massage effective, but otherwise confine yourself to light pressure and to the movements inspired from the way energy flows
through the body and especially the classic movement upwards from the base of the spine.
The Big Ben has stood erected there for the longest of times.
Once you understand the origin, let us proceed to visiting the Big Ben in London. That is actually an analogy of
why you should have a tantric massage in London. It is a symbol of power and longevity, a timeless vigor that constitutes greatness in someone's life.
A city of arts, commerce, education, and entertainment.
Some even provide tantric massage. Of course, the next question I would like to ask you then is: Do you also know that the
number of massage parlors in London is growing considerably?
The home of more than 7,556,900 people. Yes, that bustling, capital city of England.
Are you familiar with London?
Carrying on the theme of many of my articles, this is part of a mini series
on using the techniques of massage. This approach will
always result in a far more enjoyable experience for both you and your partner.
It further emphasizes the importance and the benefits of taking care of
our sexual health both physically and spiritually.
Whilst continuing to massage his Lingam, you can search for his sacred spot.
Keep bringing him close to orgasm and then back off. It is
a small indentation about the size of a pea.
This is not a method of torture, it helps them to control their ejaculation and therefore
achieve longer and more pleasurable orgasms. This is located between his testicles and his anus.
Applying pressure here will help him gain control of
his orgasms in future. If you massage here and gently increase the pressure he may well feel uncomfortable at first.
If he is nearing ejaculation you can apply pressure
here and this will increase the intensity of his orgasm.However,
I do suggest you give it a go bearing in mind the fantastic massage you gave her Yoni last night.
Traditionally the giver, some men may find it difficult to lay back and think of
England whilst his lover goes to work on his wand of light.
One of them is Shakti massages, young but promising company who not
only offers Tantric therapies, but also educates people about Tantric arts.
Several Tantric agencies had been opened in London in the last years.
Keen and eager spiritual seekers who spent years in learning eastern approaches to sexuality
proudly bring their knowledge to the guests and
residents of British capital. Being the heart of many
revolutionary beginnings in culture and society, now London is pioneering in bringing Tantric philosophy and practice to the
Explain that although there will not be any penetrative sex
this evening you will take them to previously unknown heights of sexual satisfaction. Now banish all thoughts of kneading your lover all over until
she or he begs for mercy. Choose some gentle music (whale music is optional).
Choose your lubricant wisely; chocolate body sauce has no place here.
It's not that kind of massage. Make your lover lie on his or her back,
legs apart and a cushion under the hips to raise up the
Yoni/Lingam area and a cushion under the head so they can look at their genitals.
It may help to convince them if you do not print off
this article and place it next to them on the bed.
It is very likely that this person will improve performance even during subsequent episodes of
routine sex. The principle of Tantra is overall development.
When the inner latent energies of the body are released
through the Tantric massage, the person's libido undergoes a dramatic
Nowadays, it is easy to find Tantric Massage in London, it has found it's place and acceptance since more and more stressed
international, local executives, stressed celebrities and couples are discovering and seeking respite from the norm of heavy work schedules, time
scales to meet etc. Enjoyed by both sexes men and women, Tantric massage is used as a means of
reconnecting, experimenting, emerging totally relaxed and in a happier and content state of
Tantrics believe that to grow as complete beings, blockages need
clearing from both our physical and psychic systems. Controversial - but nevertheless,
most major religions, do believe that we are more than our physical body.
Most people accept the idea of physical systems.
We all know we have a Liver, Heart, and Stomach for example - but psychic systems?
And the benefits of Tantric massage do not end here.
This massage technique can be the pathway to ineffable spiritual bliss, the doorway to the Numinous, allowing you to break through the limitations of space and time to the sweet embrace of Ultimate unity and love of the Universe.
Tantric concept perfectly fits modern western life, allowing you to enjoy its
pleasures while developing spiritually. We welcome you to the fascinating journey of love,
sensuality, self discovery and grace.
Through our excellent resources containing the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice,
such as our 10 Point Sex Plan, we have already ensured that bedroom blunders are a thing of the past for a number of very grateful men and their partners.
Tantrics believe that a powerful spirit energy, lives in our Base Chakra,
situated between our legs. If dormant, our knowledge is limited; aroused it allows the natural spiritual growth we should be experiencing.
Once released, it rises through our system.
It might help increase the sexuality by increasing sexual energy but
the aim of this massage is not to offer sexual gratification.
And hence this massage was considered as a sexual massage done to gratify the sexuality
and offer complete satisfaction. People always associate tantra with sex.
But slowly this form of massage has gained popularity people now understand it
as a massage to increase the sensuality and make
them more open to touch and the feeling associated with it.
The massage itself involves every part of the body, although I guess the Yoni/Lingam
area will receive more than its fair share of attention. The massaging of the body is to help prepare the receiver for the attention you will be paying
The Tantric massage has existed for more than five
thousand years and although it is a newer phenomenon to the Western countries, it is definitely gaining popularity.
Its benefits are proven and numerous and apart from complete relaxation, stress relief, and blissful feeling, can be used between partners as well as part of their intimate life.
His Lingam must be completely exposed. Begin as before by gently massaging all over
his body, avoiding this area for a while. Next massage
the area on the pubic bone above the Lingam. Massage the area between his
testicles and his anus (perineum). Put a pillow under his hips and spread his legs with his knees bent.
Pour a small amount of oil over his shaft and testicles and begin gently massaging his testicles.
This allows him to become completely relaxed and prepared for
the touching of the Lingam. Do this for some time, then change to grasping the Lingam at the top, slide down the shaft and remove your
hand, replace with the left and repeat this process.
Don't worry if the Lingam goes soft, it will shortly perk up again. Get your man to lay back
on the bed with a pillow under his head to enable him to see what you are doing.
Moving on to the Lingam, gently grasp the base
with your right hand and move up the shaft and then remove your hand, repeat
with the left hand. The head of the Lingam is very sensitive and deserves special
attention. Massage it in a circular motion. Likewise if your partner seems to be on the brink of orgasm, back off and encourage deep
breathing.As with other forms of massage, Tantric massage has its own unique benefits.
Before we discuss this type of massage in more detail,
we need to understand that Tantric massage is unique
and a very special kind of massage. What particularly appeals to me is how
this focuses more on our feelings and spiritual well being rather than our physical health.
According to most authors, the Tantrism has been around for more than 5000 years
and it incorporates a number of religious and spiritual traditions, which have been united around one single principle.
Even if you do not follow these principles or you do not have the time
to study the wonderful Tantric practices and beliefs, you can still benefit enormously
from a healing tantric massage!
This does not aim to bring sexual gratification, although if an orgasm is achieved
during a session, it is also welcomed and perfectly acceptable; however, the main goal is to remove any hinders and blockages that
prevent the person from enjoying being touched and
receiving intimate pleasure. The philosophy behind the Tantric massages is
to help the receiver get acquainted with her or his own body, learn how to receive pleasure, and relax.
A healing tantric massage is a massage that unifies the spiritual with the physical
and can benefit the receiver in many positive ways.
Apart from the immediate benefit of improved blood circulation and relaxation, the traditional massages
typically do not achieve anything beyond the pure physical.
Unlike the traditional massage, the Tantric is far more intimate and sensual, and includes massaging of areas that are a "no go" zone during the traditional sessions.
The Tantric massage is based on a different foundation and the sessions can include additional and
more spiritual elements such as body worship, Tantric rituals, breathing exercises,
It is very difficult to explain these intense feelings even after one has experienced it, since Tantric
Massage and it's delivery is open to creative interpretation. It controls and extends mental and
bodily pleasures with deliberate, expert human touch in such a erotic way.
Another distinguished feature of this kind of massage is
the pleasure that the giver should receive as well - since this is a very intimate form of touching, it
is typically, although not always, performed from one partner to
another, but numerous studios employ professionals
that are highly skilled and able to give excellent
Tantric massage as well. On a more practical level, the Tantric
massage is a full body erotic massage that includes massaging the male
and female sexual organs as well, which are known as Yoni (the female sexual organ) and Lingam (the male sexual organ).
The touch is also typically much gentler and lighter than touch, used in the traditional
"deep tissue" massage and the sensation is that
of relaxation and connection with the giver.
However, as already mentioned the sexual gratification is not the main goal
of the sessions and is considered an added benefit. It is important that the giver
touches the receiver in a way that is pleasurable to them as well as this
would help them properly channel the sexual energy and deliver greater satisfaction.
This might sound like an easy task, but many people have
difficulties "letting go" entirely as they feel vulnerable during the sessions; this
state could be overcome by leaning some of the breathing techniques that can help the receiver relax and fully enjoy
the experience. In order to get the full benefits of the
Tantra massage, the receiver also has to participate in a way
that they have to learn how to completely trust the giver and loosen up completely.
If the two people are not partners, they could agree beforehand
what is acceptable and comfortable for both of them.
Tantric massage, when done correctly, helps balance the flow of energy,
realign important energy centers and strengthen body's self-regulation system.
Not only will you feel revitalized (some use the
word reborn), but you will also notice the numerous benefits of Tantric massage
unfolding with the time, especially if you use it regularly.
Proper flow of energy in the body ensures smooth flow of life, positive emotions and sound health.
Provided by skilled masseuses and masseurs in your home or hotel
suite who provide pleasure, warmth, fantasy and melodious sensations, throughout the entire naked body, reaching and connecting mind to
inner self in a bid to re-connect and refresh, in the most enjoyable way imaginable.
Another important part of the Tantra massage is the rule that all and every part of the body can be
touched - the Yoni and the Lingam are not the only two parts that have to be massaged since sensual receptors are found all over our bodies.
The healing tantric massage can come in many forms and variations
and some massage centers offer female on male, female on female, and
couples massages as well. As far as the physical part
of the massage goes, the healing tantric massage differs from the Swedish (Western) massage by the intensity of
the strokes - here, the strokes and the touch are soft and
gentle and are not meant to work on the muscles,
but rather to open the soul and the mind of the receiver.
The healing tantric massage also works on the Chakras, which are the
seven centers of life, and use them to promote enhanced state of awareness, wholeness,
and wellbeing. The couples' massages are an excellent form of sharing a wonderful experience and can teach couples to bond and enjoy relaxing together.Crucially,
Tantrics believe that any repression of this energy leaves us unbalanced and
damaged. Tantrics believe working on our bodies can clear
them of accumulated rubbish, enabling healing and re-integration with the surrounding spirit energy.
Central to Tantra is its belief in this spirit or
energy force, and that the universe - and us individually - are all filled with
the same energy.
The purpose is to channel the sexual energy, and
teach a man how to enjoy being touched and receive; every treatment ends with the receiver reaching a state of physical and emotional harmony.
The Tantra massage for men often incorporates the infamous Lingam massage, where
the man's male sexual organ is touched and massaged; the main purpose is not to achieve an orgasm
or sexual relief, although if that happens during the session, it is a welcomed and
normal response. The success of each therapy depends on the bond, which
is established between the receiver and the therapist and this bond is often strengthened with breathing exercises or meditation, which could precede each session.
Tantra has been known to open the way to orgasms in females, often their first.
Men can use it to extend and enhance their pleasure or to control premature ejaculation. Perfect for relaxing after a long flight, many international travelers have benefited from this type of massage, many couples have found it a way to connect whilst women use it to explore.
Tantrics go further, believing that the pleasure is the gateway to
spirituality - the means to an end. i) Therapeutic masseurs focus on direct physical benefits;
sensualists see pleasure as an end in itself.
Tantric massage is basically just a massage. The massage itself does tend to cause orgasms, but these are described as a bonus rather than the aim.
The Hindus describe Tantra as achieving personal growth through
pleasurable existence. However it was created from the belief that if
you are sexually happy and relaxed then your health will benefit.
The massage can unlock areas of the body that have been shackled and confined and can even repair the
wear and tear of the body. A Tantric massage can make a lot of positive difference and one of them is that the person improves in stamina.
As a result, the person becomes more productive in different areas of their
iv) No externally imposed barriers exist as to where, what
and how to touch. Many Westerners tend to be very
genitally orientated. In this way, Tantra continues the liberation many feel when they realise that touch is both natural and
mutually enriching. The only barriers are those that we,
as responsible adults have decided will be there.
If the agreement allows exploration of the whole of your partner's body,
they -and you -may find new, totally unexpected, areas of
enjoyment. We overlook the other 95% of our body, much of which
is capable of giving differing but equally exquisite responses.
bless her and worship her, for she is your one friend, your one support
on earth. 'Respect woman, for she is the mother of the universe and all the truth of divine creation lies
in her. be lenient towards woman. She is the basis of
all that is good and beautiful, as she is also the germ of life and death.
On her depends the whole existence of man, for she is his natural and moral support.
In acting thus, you will win her love and her heart. Her love ennobles man, softens his
hardened heart, tames the brute in him, and makes of him a lamb.
respect her, uphold her.
The whole Universe was created was created by sexual energy, quite literally.
The Divine Creative principle is sexual, in its nature. Sexual energy has a tremendous power.
In Hindu mythology The Supreme Deity has two aspects, male and female,
and their constant interplay creates all things visible and invisible, in every moment.
Couple's Tantra refers to the introduction of intimately involved couples to
the wonderful and fascinating world of Tantra, which can help them open up to each
other, learn how to enjoy each other's company, and be better lovers.
The best way to learn more about this ancient practice is by attending
a course, where an experienced Tantric follower will introduce you to the
breathing exercises, the various massage techniques, including the lingam and yoni massage, and various rituals such as
soul gazing, which are essential part of the Tantric union.
Well, you now know what tantric massage is, you know what
the benefits are, and you pretty much have a basic idea of how you will feel after you have
one. Should you have a tantric massage in London?
It is also ideal for men and women, who suffer from sexual disorders that are not caused by
physical conditions, and sexual therapies, which include
sensual massages have been enormously successful. Men are also likely to derive great benefit from
healing tantric massage since they are traditionally more reluctant
to completely relax in the hands of their partners or professional therapists,
but once they learn how to receive pleasure and enjoy being touched
and caressed they can reach levels in their intimate lives that they never thought possible.
The healing tantric massage could be used to better
the sexual relationship of couples and teach them not only how to perform a massage on each
other, but also how to include it in their foreplay and intimate
experiences.The massage is also based on the conviction that
massaging the whole body is the only way to awaken our senses
and keep away our frustrations and worries. The benefits of the Tantric massage come from
the belief that the spiritual and physical should live in harmony and only achieving this
harmony will help us live our lives to the fullest.
Other direct Tantra massage health benefits are lowering the cholesterol and improving
the good/bad cholesterol ratio, which greatly reduces the risk of heart
attack. Men, who receive tantra massage regularly also derive an enormous benefit since
they are far less likely to suffer from benign prostatic hyperplasia and
this is one health condition that affects approximately half of all men that are 60 years
of age or older and can severely impact their quality of life.
Having regular sex and regular ejaculation has
proven to keep the prostate from enlarging and causing all the signs and symptoms that BPH
One simply have to experience this massage to truly understand or appreciate it, but may not necessarily be able
to explain it. Ask 20 people what Tantric Massage is and you are guaranteed various answers.
I describe it as follows, "a wonderful escape that promotes the emergence of a completely refreshed and totally relaxed state, mentally and physically.
The benefits of a Tantric massage are many, as recorded by the ancient rishis and sadhus of India who were the developers of this art and the earliest implementers as well. Here we enlist these benefits and you will see how they are quite needed in the contemporary world we are living in.
There are several people who have experienced delights such as orgasm and even more than that through a carefully-administered Tantric massage. When done in the right way, it can also give orgasm to people who have never experienced one, especially applicable in case of women.
What it is all about is the stimulation of certain areas of the body so that you could reach your highest level of pleasure. Tantric massage does not necessarily entail sexual penetration for both of you to enjoy it. What you are supposed to do is to touch and massage all of the sensitive spots in your partner's area and vice versa.
Some major benefits are:
o The body's Kundalini is awakened
o All the seven spiritual chakras are enhanced and energized
o Balance of physical, emotional and spiritual energies
o Women experience great benefits. Menstrual cramps are minimized through vaginal tantric massage
o It opens up new levels of pleasure by increasing the sensuality in the body organs
During the millennia in puritanical society of Europe these facts were not known, and even the sexual revolution of the 20th century brought sexual freedom, but not sexual wisdom. But now it's time to get awake and become aware of the unlimited potential of sexual energy and use it responsibly for the own well-being and happiness, and not just mindlessly waste it around.
It's simply a wonderful way to experience new sensations, to open up to new and exciting possibilities in the bedroom. I dare say Tantric Massage have saved many relationships heading to doom and gloom. Many couples are enlightened to erotic tips during a Tantric Massage, this is often used throughout their relationship to enhance it, something very special to share.
Massages are renown for easing or coping with tension and stress, some are simply more enjoyable whilst others are geared to easing specific conditions. Tantra aims to deal with mind and body as a whole without isolating any area of the body.
The British Museum is our first destination. It is about learning something new and embracing the feeling of excitement, from unearthing an alternative. The museum itself is all about discoveries, finding out the origin of something, and uncovering the unknown.
Tantric massage is a great way to pleasure yourself and your man. It can teach both of you to explore ways on how to please each other and it can also teach both of you how to hold on to your peak until the right time comes for you to enjoy that highest peak of orgasm. Tantric massage can help you and your partner discover higher levels of orgasm making sex a much more wonderful experience.
Meditation and music are the only things you need for this kind of massage. I am sure the values and benefits of a Tantric massage have been undermined because people may well have "tried it" without understanding its true meaning and the highly specialized skills required to perform a true Tantric massage. There is music designated for use with Tantric massage but it is not commonplace and may be hard to find. However, the music used should be known for its connections with meditation and spiritual awareness.
Tantric healers at Shakti's are qualified massage therapists and devoted Tantric s, with solid experience in many complementary disciplines. Shakti is a Tantric Massage London agency which can help you to make your first steps at the Tantric path.It can unclog the blockages of energy in the body, thus relieving psychophysical symptoms of stress, giving you more vitality and energy, stronger health, boost of creative ideas and enhanced perception of arts, increased personal efficiency and problem solving abilities, profound insights into the nature of things, and ultimately, the blissful experience of unity with everything, were personal boundaries fade away and deep realization of own divine nature takes place.
Erotic massage has been around for a very long time, thousands of years even, and has even been used in medicine as a way of helping people. These days, more people are using erotic massage as a form of foreplay than anything else. An erotic massage is a massage where the techniques used are to help a person relax, as well as to heighten their sexual arousal. More often than not, an erotic massage is used on the genital areas of the person in order to help them reach the height of sexual pleasure without the act of intercourse.
Unfortunately, it's not that common and, therefore, not readily available just everywhere due to the specialist skills and training involved. The professional who provides such massage services must be a master of the basic and advanced principles of Tantra and meditation.
Even though orgasm is not the main goal, the receiver has his or her senses awaken and their sexual energy channeled in the best possible way. The short answer is "yes," the Tantric massage comes with many health benefits for men and women and is one of the reasons of its growing popularity. A good, and perfectly given Tantric massage improves the blood circulation, helps men and women that suffer from high blood pressure, and results in stress reduction. During the Tantric massage sessions there are no "restricted zones,
" like in the traditional western massage, therefore deriving sexual pleasure is not only expected, but also welcomed.
The results of this openness, allied to it's emphasis on the journey not the destination being important can be astounding for those used to concentrating on the journey's end ( i. It permits - encourages - a freedom to experience, experiment, enjoy and openly delight in our body in a way that we in the West can find in turns, alarming, exhilarating, shaming and - perhaps - ultimately liberating. Striving to be open and honest, it is an uplifting but disciplined approach to the body. It allows time for us to focus on our partner and their body's varied sensations. Tantra is a letting go, a sensual journey that can lead to astounding joy. ejaculation for the man which it discourages, and, if she's lucky, orgasm for the woman). Power, coercion, emotional blackmail or exploitation is not acceptable in Tantra. Tantra has, few, if any, taboos, provided -and it is a big proviso - that whatever is done is done with mutual respect and unforced agreement.
Through sensual tantric massage or male tantric massage, one might discover the love of being with his partner. In a relationship, the two must share the same level of intimacy and the two must oblige to know that they have responsibility to do with each other and that would be a nice move to level up in the relationship. This specific type of massage is done mostly by those women in the relationship.
The great benefits of sex have been proven beyond doubt and explained by the hormone release, which happens during and after an orgasm. These hormones not only make us feel happy, but their release plays a vital role for our health and contributes to muscle, bone, and hair growth. Another group of Tantric massage health benefits relates to life longevity - men that have regular sex can live up to ten years longer and are also far healthier than their peers, who have sex only once a month or less often.
Tantric massage can bring miraculous personal transformations, showing you face of God, smile of Goddess, radiance of Spirit, your own Divinity, your own luminous essence as your deepest self, your eternal self, the self beyond birth, death, straight jacket of Ego and confines of space-time continuum.
Tantra is a word denotes personal growth in terms of pleasurable existence. Thus, this sensual massage can make you experience something which can give you pleasure in a different way and something that will lighten you up and everything in you. As of the point of view of professionals, the engagement into male tantric massage is a divine experience that is somehow link with the non-secular sects of the Tantra.
Now take that feeling and multiply it ten-times fold (okay, maybe I exaggerated a bit - two times fold will do ) and that's exactly how you will feel after you have your tantric massage in London. It is a one-of-a-kind, a heaven-on-earth experience without doubt.
The Yoni massage, which is the ultimate erotic and sensual massage for women, is also practiced in the centers that offer Tantric massages. Often, the Yoni massage is used to break the full body massage, which brings the receiver to a state of arousal and back to calm numerous times during the therapy. Again, the session does not have to follow specific rules or be restricted in any way - the Yoni massage is practiced only if the receiver is comfortable with receiving it and there are no expectations of sexual relief or orgasm.At times, using soft fabric or flower petals could be a good addition and playing soft music would set up the appropriate mood. As almost every other form of massage, setting up the adequate atmosphere is highly recommended and candles and oils are almost an essential part of the sessions. When performing the massage, the receiver should be brought to a state of sexual arousal and back numerous times, which is also an ideal way for men to learn how to control their ejaculation and for women to completely surrender and enjoy being touched.
However it is fair to say "Tantra" is an amalgamation of ancient Tantric Massage techniques alongside sensual and conventional relaxing body work. There are a quite a few definitions of Tantric Massage today, all from varying viewpoints; not all consistent but certainly valid. A unique form of heightened sensations leading to the purest intimate relaxation ever experienced.
This is an art rather than a religion and even though it has deep philosophical and spiritual aspect, anyone can enjoy the exercises and the massages without having to be a follower. Tantra is an ancient Eastern way of life and philosophy, which has gained tremendous popularity in the Western world in the past few years. The tremendous benefits of the traditional rubdowns have been proven and are well known, but the Tantric sessions are quite different. The receiver is encouraged to surrender completely to the sensation, and let his or her sexual energy be guided and channeled by the therapist. Their main strength lies in the fact that each session is approached with an open mind and there are no "barred" zones. Sometimes, the various techniques could be used to address certain health issues too, but the main goal is to awaken the senses, release any built-up tension, and arouse the sexual energy. Today, you can find Tantra massages offered in almost every large city across Europe, and classes and courses are often available as well.
with an obvious lack of understanding of what they are talking about. It seems that many of these pretty young girls and agencies who have decided to advertise themselves as tantric masseuses are taking advantage of the fact that there is no real qualification for tantric massage - since in truth, tantric massage is itself a misnomer, and tantra has nothing to do with massage anyway. ' They throw around terms like 'chakras', 'kundalini' etc. But they may think that using the term 'tantric' will somehow make them sound more 'legitimate. One of the latest fads I have seen is 'tantric bondage' - the mind truly boggles. I have nothing against anyone doing whatever turns them on, but to label these activities as 'tantric' is truly a joke.
In addition, erotic massage is being used extensively in sexual therapy as a way of helping someone regain their libido in order to have a healthy sex life. This is to increase the sensitivity of the person getting the massage and to help increase the overall arousal of that person. As well, erotic massage has been used by sexual therapists as a way of helping men deal with premature ejaculation. Many sexual therapists will coach their clients on erotic massage as a form of foreplay without the gratification of an orgasm later on.
Many people looking for a tantric massage find that it is confusing to see so many websites appearing when they Google for the term 'Tantric Massage' - and that many of these sites are not that different from escort sites. with photos of naked or topless beauties who should probably be in Playboy Magazine.
It can relieve great emotional buildups and stress immediately and offer great relief by opening up all the energy centers in the body. Tantric massage in London serves people without compromising on the tradition and the cultural aspects of this eastern philosophy. Tantric massage is safe as long as you do it with a trusted source. The massages offered are done by genuine and professional person, as it is very important for the massage receiver and giver to trust and like each other.
Sexual energy can bring numerous rewards apart obvious, if one has necessary skills and knowledge to manage it properly. One of the core statements of Tantric philosophy is the idea that sexual activities can be much more than mere pleasure.
Most massage parlors play whale music because it lets people feel the calm of the ocean taking all the stress in their bodies away. Before proceeding with the massage, you should set the mood first. Play some light music so that both you and your partner will feel more relaxed. So put on some music, dim the lights and light some candles (scented preferably) and you're ready to go.
Many people from all walks of life had spontaneous spiritual awakenings without any prior religious training, and in many cases these awakenings happened in the context of lovemaking. And though these higher mystical states do not appear every time an individual receives Tantric massage, one doesn't have to be advanced yogi or anything alike to experience them.I guess the majority of us have heard about Tantric sex and massage. Had anyone asked me what it was exactly I would have giggled shyly and muttered something about gentle touching, feathers, massage and no orgasm.
I am still very much a beginner however I was pleased to discover that Tantric massage is not a mysterious sexual cult and is certainly not difficult to do. Anyone with an hour to spare and a bottle of strawberry flavoured body oil can do it.
There is really no specific technique that is proven to be the best male genital massage, since it is a sexual facet; it is more of a self self-healing and self-discovery process. One must understand the basic on how to deal with male genital massage. Your sexual energy is at work in here and you really need to put yourself to it for you to succeed. It is mostly said that when talking about male tantric massage, it is something to do with the sexual massage.
Records like these are rare but available. It's important to keep in mind that a tantra massage is not there to drive away pain and fatigue, but to allow your hidden mystic energy to ooze out through your pours, bringing your body and soul in absolute synchronization with the universe. When adding or incorporating music to your tantric massage, make sure to pick something in the line of tantra or meditation.
This kind of surrender is not possible in our materialistic life. It is not wrong to say that a Tantric massage could help you unravel your spiritual inner self. A Tantric masseur teaches you to completely surrender your body to your partner while you receive what could be the greatest pleasure you ever received.
Among them is Tantric massage, which is an integral part of complex Tantric Arts. Tantra has many techniques which can help a practitioner to master their sexual energy for the benefits of body, mind and spirit.
If she experiences too much pleasure pause for a moment and let her breathe deeply. · Stroke the clitoris gently in a clockwise or counter-clockwise motion. Squeeze it gently with your thumb and forefinger. Resume the motion when she's relaxed again.
The masters who perform these massages, own both the basic and advanced principles and skills needed to perform tantra and meditation. It's also something that's not readily available everywhere you go cause of the fact that it demands a certain form of specialization and professionalism. Tantra massage is one of the most unique forms of massaging. The massage starts off with ancient Asian and Tantric rituals, followed by a state of meditation, focusing body and mind to allow complete physical and spiritual access.
Better yet, ask your partner to learn tantric massage with you so that you could do this in the comfort of your home where you could really let go of all of your inhibitions. When you want to experience tantric massage in a massage parlor you can either go at it fully naked or partially clothed. But if you really want to feel sensual, getting all of your clothes off for that added excitement is recommended. The more relaxed you are and comfortable the more that you will enjoy this sensual massage.
They were not interested in any transformation, they were interested only in getting rid of their repressions; their interest was basically sexual. that's what many of the therapists are doing. First people should be introduced to meditation and then they should be introduced to tantra methods. And the so-called therapists enjoy the money that they bring. These people who are doing tantra, they don't know anything about tantra. They have nothing to lose, they simply allow freedom. Tantra methods are totally different. and with a great name, they will not feel that they are doing anything wrong; they will feel they are doing something religious, something spiritual. unless meditation moves into first place, it will always happen that in tantra people will be doing all kinds of perversions.
Tantric Massage can be described as a delicious full naked body massage starting with light caresses which leads to firm strokes. The use of feathers, various sort materials can also be introduced. Using music, incense and warmed scented or unscented oils gives the mind tranquil calm to accept this special time to simply let go of your daily cares.
There are many reasons why a person may not have much of a libido anymore. Therefore, to relax enough to increase your libido, you need an erotic and tantric massage from your partner. So, how do you relax when you are stressed? While age is part of it, stress is often a bigger reason that someone's libido has gone down. Stress is common in our lives these days, and that results in a lot of people have low libidos.
Tantra rejects the repressive, moralistic, self-denying code of living propounded by many religions, where our body's sexual or sensual needs are met with guilt, more guilt, repression, denial and punishment. Little attention is paid to the development and expansion of our body's sensuality; no teaching us how to embrace it, value it. Where, when attention is paid to bodily needs, it's usually aimed at avoidance, for example of disease or pregnancy.You feel more youthful. Since you become sexually more active and since you gain more energy to do your daily things, you don't feel your age anymore. If you believe that one is as young as one believes, then Tantric massage could definitely make you feel younger. This also brings confidence in you and you may begin to feel that you can take on the world.
Well, massage can help you balance your body by enhancing the five elements in the body. They act as self healers as they not only relax the tensed muscles but also clear the body of toxic acids like lactic acid. The benefits of getting a professional massage are numerous. Some people wonder what a massage can do to a human body other than the feel good factor. One such variation in massage is the tantric massage. It increases flexibility and removes stiffness thereby increasing mobility of the muscles and joints. They are different types and various forms of massages.
Not only was this kind of massage used for sexual purposes but the Hindus believe that tantric massage can help people be healthier. Tantric massage is a kind of massage used by the Hindus to channel their sexual energies and heighten their arousal.
Yet even the very basic effects of Tantric massage are highly advantageous, too. These include increased and finely-tuned sensory perception and awareness, amplified sexual pleasure, better ejaculation control (and resolved ejaculation problems) and deeper connection with your partner.
It does not involve actual penetrative sex, but it does involve a full touching on the intimate organs. The massage, although does tend to cause orgasms, has the actual aim of connecting spirit with form. It is to embrace compassion and experience love through the beauty of the earth and all existence. Tantra itself is often described as achieving personal growth by means of enjoyable existence.
I have never been a great fan of Osho, but he did write well and here is a quote from one of his articles, which is quite appropriate: There is a basic fallacy that human beings fall into: they find a small truth and rather than discover the whole, the remaining part, they imagine to fill up the gap. they can manage to make a system, but the remaining part is simply their invention. should be transformed into higher forms. And man's sexuality shows itself so powerfully that in the name of tantra it became simply sexual orgy. But what happened is that they never went very deep into meditation; meditation remained just secondary.
These could include bathing rituals, full body massage, and a number of Tantric rituals, which will help you restore your energy levels and prepare for the busy week ahead. Other sessions are ideal for the busy business people, for the stressed moms, and for anyone that seeks a way to relax and recharge. Some of these sessions are specifically designed for couples, who want to rekindle their physical and spiritual relationship, learn new and exciting ways to pleasure each other, and become not only better lovers, but better partners as well. Experienced Tantric therapist can help men and women with sexual problems too, teach men how to prolong pleasure, show women how to enjoy their own bodies, and teach couples how to please each other. Before you book a Tantric massage, you should contact the massage center and find out more about the sessions that they offer since they could be quite different from what you expect. The power of this centuries old Eastern philosophy comes from the fact that it celebrates all aspects of our being and helps us achieve peace and balance.
Meditation should have been the most primary thing because that is going to transform the energy, but that became secondary. And many people who were sexually. These were the people who brought all their perversions and all their repressions. repressed, joined the tantra school. Without meditation that was going to happen.
Tantric massage is an important technique in the system of Tantra, the spiritual tradition born in the magnificent Himalayan region many centuries ago. Tantra was a revolutionary concept that united spirituality and sensuality, instead of declaring them incompatible opposites, like many religions did.
The Tantric massage is by definition an erotic, sensual massage, which has a strong philosophic aspect as well. Another misconception is that the Tantric massage has strict rules, procedures, strokes, and moves that should be always used - this is simply not true and you could find yourself receiving Tantric massage, which is quite different from a Tantric massage that you have received in the past. It should be noted that orgasm is not the aim of the practice and its main goal is to learn how to arouse the sexual energy, Kundalini, and channel it through the whole body. The belief is that a person can achieve fulfillment and growth faster when he or she is sexually satisfied and although the Tantric massage does not involve penetration, it can lead to orgasm.With your palm facing upwards and your middle finger buried in the Yoni, bend your finger back towards the palm and you should feel a spongy area just under the pubic bone. Your lover may feel the need to pee but hopefully she should feel pleasure building slowly. Another option is to leave your middle finger inside, continue stimulating the clitoris with your thumb and insert your little finger up her anus. This is known as the G-spot ("that's where it is!
Whilst a few of your digits are employed inside, you may as
well use your thumb to continue circling the clitoris.
Use it instead to continue stroking and massaging other
parts of her body (her body parts not yours! Your lover will more than likely experience a very intense orgasm and afterward will feel completely relaxed.
Gently massage here, in circles, back and forth, side to side.
Whilst all this is going on, your left hand may feel a little underused.
She will generally drift off to sleep and leave you in a state of arousal with no prospect of a Lingam massage for you tonight!
I would suggest you perhaps test the waters first as anal penetration when you are
not expecting it would definitely ruin the mood. At this point you may wish to insert the finger between your middle finger and your little finger.
If you are visiting somewhere for your massage you need to decide in advance whether you will be
getting naked or not. If you are at home with the missus
or the husband, get your kit off and turn the heating up.
Proper Tantric masseuse prefer you to be naked, they believe this helps the healing process all
over your body. If you are shy you can choose to keep some clothes
on, I am guessing you will want to cover your Lingam or your
The mental health of the Tantric followers also strengthens with time
and they are less likely to experience anxiety attacks or have
higher stress levels. This, in turn, leads to greater quality of life,
improved work performance, healthier relationships,
and greater fulfillment. This is direct benefit from the sensual massage sessions and the intimacy between the giver and
The four hand Tantric massage is typically offered in the massage studios
and perfumed by highly experienced therapists, who know how to
warm up the skin and the body, how to stimulate the senses of the receiver, and how to award maximum pleasure.
Having two Goddesses touching your body with hands and lips can be exhilarating, beautiful,
and relaxing and arousing at the same time. As the name indicates, there are two givers in the
four hand Tantra massage and the experience for the receiver in nothing short
In most instances, the sessions start with short breathing
exercises, gazing, or visualization, which prepares the receiver and the giver
and synchronizes their energies. Then, the session is followed by what is in essence a full body sensual or erotic
massage, which incorporates the touching of the male or female sexual
organs. Even though the true Tantric techniques and elements take years for the
followers to master, you can easily learn how to perform
this form of massage on your partner, especially if you are guided by a therapist.
The male sexual organ is called Lingam (although
the word has deeper meaning) and the female Yoni; massaging them does
not necessarily have to achieve orgasm, but the Lingam and
Yoni massages are used in order to help the receiver unblock any sexual tension and reach the
state of bliss. If an orgasm is achieved during the sessions, this is perfectly normal, but each session should be approached
without any firm expectations or rules in order for the treatment to be successful.
Most of the couple's Tantra classes introduce the subjects in very easy to
understand and down to earth way, so you do not have to worry too much about the original names that are given to the breathing and massaging techniques.
It is far more important to understand how to use the power of Tantra in order
to channel properly your and your partner's energy in a
way that will make you not only better lover, but also more successful and wholesome person.
Tantric massage is an excellent way to apprehend finer subtleties of
sexuality and build stronger, healthier, based on deep intimate bond relationship with a spouse or partner.
In the arsenal of Tantric massage are not only touches
and strokes, but also powerful visualization and special breathing
techniques. This kind of massage has numerous health benefits, ranging from purely physical
ones, like stress relieve and immunity boost, to
emotional release and healing of psychological traumas.
All together they make a dramatic impact at each
and every level of a person, emotional, physical and of course spiritual.
However, there is one important aspect people should know about the
male tantric massage. Its main purpose is not purely
for sex or the like; rather it aims to meet something deeper experience between partners because it makes use of the sexual energy and the sexual energy in return give wondrous benefits to one's body.The two basic
necessity for this massage is music and a state of meditation. Tantra uses fundamentals like love,
compassion and trust instead of sex. Oils, lotion and creams all work well with tantric massages but try staying clear
of scented oils or lotions which may distract and draw
your attention to other things. Tantric massage has proven to work for injuries,
illnesses and even couples can take advantage of the amazing healing powers to increase closeness and spiritual well being.
By removing the pressure to perform, as well anxiety associated with achieving a
sexual climax, tantric massage can help couples who are having difficulty climaxing or maintain a erection. However -
where a medical reason has been ruled out, tantric sensual massage can help couples by soothing the emotions, deepening relaxation and therefore sensual
and sexual arousal, as well as strengthening intimacy in a relationship.
Medical advice should always be sought if there are problems.
Often, massage is given as a medical treatment, to heal
or relieve pain from injured muscles or tendons. Tantric massage,
on the other hand, is a sensual massage which is used to increase
the romantic bond between two partners. Tantric massage:
if the name if this treatment makes you think of something enjoyable, your thinking is correct.
Once you have completed such course, you can further deepen your study into the matter by purchasing
some books, reading online, and getting in touch with other Tantra followers.
As long as you continue practicing and learning, and approach this wonderful world
with an open heart, you will continue improving and growing and this is likely to drastically
change the relationship with your partner for the better!
Interestingly, I have been reading about the various theories on the 'lost
years' in the life of Jesus - and one theory is that he spent time travelling in India, and
stayed in the region of what is now the Hemis monastery, which is a Buddhist monastery in Ladakh.
One important facet of Tantra is respect for the Goddess.
It is said that a scroll of his teachings was kept hidden in that area and then found and translated.
this may or may not be true, but I found the words on respect for women in that text,
very similar to the fundamental understanding of the respect for the Goddess
in tantric teachings in India: And by Goddess, I
do not mean a masseuse dressed up in a sexy dress,or posing topless and calling herself a Goddess.
This form of massage has its origins in India, and includes
more than just the massaging of the body. By combining all of these
elements together, both partners become more in touch with each other's thoughts
and feelings, as well as becoming more aware of themselves and their own body.
Partners must also focus on breathing, visualization and
In order for any of us to be successful in our everyday lives, at work, or when running our business,
we need to be free of unnecessary burdens, sexual frustration, negative
thoughts, and poor relationship; all these are only a few of the areas, where the Tantric massage could help.
One of the great misconceptions about this ancient art is that it boils down to giving sexual pleasure or
teaching the receiver how to prolong sexual pleasure - even though both these elements
could be included in some of the sessions, they are simply a welcomed part of the whole and
by no means its goal. The primary goal is to channel properly
the sexual energy, which is extremely powerful, and use it for constructive self-growth and self-realization.
Tantra is always associated with spirituality of the male and
feminine aspects. The belief is that sexual energy is spiritual
and that utilizing this one can attain great spiritual glory.
Though it is an eastern belief more and more people from the west have started to practice it for their physical, emotional and spiritual
growth. Tantra is an eastern term used for Kundalini powers by energizing the seven Chakras.
The huge potential of this vital power can be discovered, tapped into, and used for the accomplishment of virtually any aspiration.
Tantric massage is a perfect - and pleasant - method of sexual education. This massage allows you
to better understand and explore in depth all the aspects of you sexuality.
It can't be denied that lots of couples these days encounter problem when it comes to intimacy,
probably due to the stress they are dealing with everyday or probably they lack time to be
with each other. The lack of time can lead to other serious problems like losing of spark in the relationship and unexpected problems such as separation.
For quite long number of years, the popularity of the sensual tantric massage is
still undeniable. There are good number of couples who are really attach to
this kind of practice for it is not only for physical benefit or a mean to be free from stress, this
is also a matter of relationship enhancement for it enriches
the intimacy and trust of those who are committed into long term relationship.Believing
our body is utterly central to our well-being; Tantrics use many techniques to 'repair'
it. One such is massage, it's believed that massage and Tantric techniques
can help break down blockages and flush them out, - that the massage can heal
But now as times change and world becomes one huge global village, ancient secrets find their way
to wider audiences. And luckily, Tantric massage is available in London now.
In this article modern, London based experts of Tantric arts are explaining the principles
of Tantric massage. For centuries Tantric massage was a technique available exclusively to the adepts of Tantra who
spent many years in training.
This empowering article on men's sexual health was written in response to questions which
have been asked on topics related to Men's Issues as well as address common challenges that people have with this subject.
I sincerely hope that you find the following information of value.
The following article is one of a series of articles which focus on building
or regaining Self Esteem, motivating and empowering men to
deal with the very sensitive subject of their Sexual
Although unnecessary, oils and lotions can also be used and, I suppose there may
be a perception that a massage would not be a massage without them.
So as not to diminish the overall effect of this type of massage, avoid the use of
scented oils as they can, in themselves, be distracting.
If you are self-conscious or have low self-esteem, this
experience can help you to learn to appreciate your
body. It can also help you to boost the confidence of your partner as you enjoy being close to
him or her and helping him or her to feel loved
and accepted. Don't be embarrassed to suggest this form of massage to
your partner; it can help to rejuvenate your relationship.
Through ancient practices originating in India, lover's have used specific techniques and strokes to relax
the body increase arousal, awaken a deeper sensuality and sexuality,improve communication with your lover, and release stuck energy and negative emotions from past hurts.
This sensual and healing massage opens up the body, mind and emotions to circulate sexual energy around
the body. Trough tantric massage a couple can begin an erotic
and sensual journey towards whole body awareness, intimacy and love.
Lie on a soft surface and use pillows to make yourself the most comfortable.
For the best massage, use oil on the fingertips, either scented or
unscented. For the ideal tantric massage, partners take turns massaging each
other. It is essential that the entire surface of the body receives the massage,
in order to make the skin feel relaxed and sensitive to the touch of the other person.
Then, the full body massages begins and the two Goddesses
touch all body areas and could slowly move
from back, arm, and leg massage to the infamous Lingam (or Yoni if the
receiver is a female) massage, depending on the receiver's response, and carry
on until the end. The way to perform Tantra massage can differ from
one place to another, but all sessions have a few
elements in common too - they typically start by setting the scene, warming up
the room, and are opened with breathing exercises and visualization.
The touches are gentle and soft, very unexpected since the givers are
two, and the arousal and the restful states alternate throughout the session.
These techniques could take years to master and often the devotees are guided by a guru in order
to receive guidance. According to the Tantra followers, the main goal of the
Tantra is to use numerous techniques such as Yoga, massage, and meditation in order to achieve complete control over
one's own being and reach absolute spiritual perfection.
The missus will be well and truly fired up by now but try
not to allow an orgasm just yet, let the sensations build.
Four times more sensitive that your Lingam so take it easy here.
) and gently feel around inside continuing to massage
gently. If it becomes too much, just back off a bit and
encourage her to breathe deeply. Begin by gently stroking it in a clockwise and anti-clockwise direction and squeeze it
gently between your thumb and index finger. The jewel in the crown is the clitoris.
Now insert the middle finger of your right hand (I can't
remember why it has to be the right one but
I shouldn't think it would cause too much trouble if you need to use your left instead.
One thing is for sure a massage should be an effective treatment
or pleasurable pastime, that provide the receiver "the gateway" to
pleasure or relief, releasing the load of our usual daily grind or therapeutically easing physical or mental pain.
Just because your libido is relaxed and ready to go
doesn't mean you should. Sometimes the massage is just as good as sex.
The massage should involve slow movements over the entire
form of the body with special consideration given to
the genitals. As the sexual arousal grows, new areas should be targeted as a way to
keep the arousal high. Create a relaxing atmosphere with candles, soft music and dimmed lighting.
Once your libido is ready to go, continue with the massage.